Leave Out the Tragic Parts, Dave Kindred
Leave Out the Tragic Parts, Dave Kindred
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Leave Out the Tragic Parts
A Grandfather's Search for a Boy Lost to Addiction

Author: Dave Kindred

Narrator: Dave Kindred

Unabridged: 6 hr 58 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: PublicAffairs

Published: 02/02/2021


Synopsis

This extraordinary investigation of the death of the author's grandson yields a powerful memoir of addiction, grief, and the stories we choose to tell our families and ourselves. Jared Kindred left his home and family at the age of eighteen, choosing to wander across America on freight train cars and live on the street. Addicted to alcohol most of his short life, and withholding the truth from many who loved him, he never found a way to survive. Through this ordeal, Dave Kindred's love for his grandson has never wavered. Leave Out the Tragic Parts is not merely a reflection on love and addiction and loss. It is a hard-won work of reportage, meticulously reconstructing the life Jared chose for himself--a life that rejected the comforts of civilization in favor of a chance to roam free. Kindred asks painful but important questions about the lies we tell to get along, and what binds families together or allows them to fracture. Jared's story ended in tragedy, but the act of telling it is an act of healing and redemption. This is an important book on how to love your family, from a great writer who has lived its lessons.

Author Bio

Dave Kindred has been a columnist for the Louisville Courier-Journal, the Washington Post, the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, The National Sports Daily, Sporting News, and Golf Digest. Kindred is the author of several books including Heroes, Fools and Other Dreamers: A Sportswriter's Gallery of Extraordinary People, Around the World in 18 Holes, Morning Miracle: Inside the Washington Post The Fight to Keep a Great Newspaper Alive, and Sound and Fury: Two Powerful Lives, One Fateful Friendship.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Debra on December 30, 2020

4.5 stars Dave Kindred, who worked as a sports reporter, wrote this book about the death of his grandson. It is a memoir about addiction, the stories we tell ourselves, the stories others tell us, the stories we choose to believe and grief. In his Author's note he writes "I have never written anythin......more

Goodreads review by Theresa on June 08, 2020

4.5 stars This challenged some of my stereotypes about young people on the road. I generally assume that people who abuse drugs and/or alcohol are self-medicating for something—often things like depression, bipolar disorder, or PTSD. I also assume kids on the road are running away from some type of p......more

Goodreads review by Laura on January 01, 2021

Ok, I want to say something that rarely gets told to others. This book hit home to me in many ways. Growing up alcohol was an extension of the men in my family’s hands. Always drinking and getting drunk. Some were nice drunks, some were mean but as I grew up, I swore I would never ever let that happ......more

Goodreads review by Courtney on October 11, 2023

I am not sure what I expected from this book but it was a heartfelt read about a grandfather trying to connect to a wayward grandson. Overall, it was an honest and emotional journey. The book as a whole felt like a pursuit of closure for the author in the hopes of further understanding his grandson......more

Goodreads review by Christy on September 12, 2024

This book was an amazing story of a grandfather’s extraordinary investigation after the death of his grandson. Kindred dug deep to try and understand his grandson’s choice of lifestyle. How and why did this happen. Jared left home at 18 and lived on the streets and traveled the world via trains. Kno......more