A Good Apology, Molly Howes
A Good Apology, Molly Howes
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A Good Apology
Four Steps to Make Things Right

Author: Molly Howes

Narrator: Molly Howes, Maggi-Meg Reed

Unabridged: 8 hr 20 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 07/21/2020

Synopsis

Through its four essential steps, A GOOD APOLOGY gives groundbreaking advice on how best to make an effective apology toward rebuilding any relationship, for readers of The Body Keeps the Score.

We've all done something wrong or made a mistake or insulted someone -- even if by accident. We've all been hurt and wanted the other person to help us heal. It may be surprising, but the breaches themselves aren't the real problem; our inability to fix them is what causes us trouble.
In A Good Apology, Dr. Molly Howes uses her experiences with patients in her practice, research findings, and news stories to illustrate the power and importance of a thorough apology. She teaches how we can all learn to craft an effective apology with four straightforward steps.
An apology is a small-scale event between people, but it's enormously powerful. This comprehensive book gives readers the tools to fix their relationships, make amends, and move forward. With it, you'll fully understand the meaning and importance of this universal and timeless endeavor: a good apology.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Michelle on May 21, 2020

A Good Apology is a must read for anyone who wants to both understand themselves and improve their relationships with others. It is a deeply compassionate and exhaustively researched book that allows us to explore the concept of forgiveness and healing. Apologies, we learn, are not reflexive asserti......more

Goodreads review by Emi on April 05, 2020

Molly Howes is an excellent writer/researcher, and coming from one who doesn't generally enjoy the Self Help Genre, that really means a lot. I love the variety of apology examples presented here, from the historical to the global and contemporary, and also those the author has come across in her wor......more

Goodreads review by E. on April 10, 2020

Ms Howes, a highy skilled therapist, turns the question of how to make a good apology on all sides, to promote the compassion and accountabilty that can transform wrongs done by individuals, governments, the medical community and societal patterns, among the many discussed. In a deeply intelligent d......more

Goodreads review by Ann on December 09, 2019

This is a book you'll want to buy for yourself, and then for friends and family members. The author draws on her experience as a therapist to offer insight into why it's so hard to apologize and why we often get it so wrong. She offers a four-step model that leads to repair of relationships. Wise, w......more

Goodreads review by Strawny on June 11, 2020

Really good book--lays out in plain English why apologies are necessary, how they should be done properly, and why our current patterns may be failing us. I especially liked the parts about how an apology without a future plan for changed behavior doesn't really amount to much. The book does a good......more

Quotes

"Those looking for a way to say sorry and mean it will learn much from Howes's approachable demystification of the art of apology."—Publishers Weekly

"A Good Apology beautifully outlines how our relationships can dramatically improve by an authentic way to repair. Mistakes and ruptures happen, and Howes shows us how the practice of the apology is the first imperative step toward repair. By following her 4 steps to make things right, the practice of how and when we apologize can be honed to create transformative and positive change."—Eve Rodsky, New YorkTimes bestselling author of Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have TooMuch to Do (and More Life to Live)

"At a time when conflict and divisiveness seem to be engulfing us all, this wonderful, on-target book by Molly Howes is just what is needed! Here are practical, effective remedies that can help make reconciled relationships possible."—The Most Reverend MichaelB. Curry, Presiding Bishop ofThe Episcopal Church

"This is the definitive book on how to make an apology that actually matters, that heals both parties, and that leads to growth, joy, and peace of mind. Accessible, authoritative, and filled with convincing real-life scenarios from this consummate clinician's own work, A Good Apology teems with warmth, wisdom, tenderness, and an infectious zest for making things right."—Edward Hallowell, MD, nationally bestselling co-author of Driven to Distraction

"Dr. Howes' beautiful book is a needed antidote to an era in which division has come to seem inevitable and conflict unresolvable. A Good Apology counters with a premise combining humility about the capacity of even the best among to cause harm and the possibility of human growth even in our darkest moments. It helps us forgive ourselves, too."— Frances Moore Lappé, New York Times bestselling author of Diet for a Small Planet and Daring Democracy

"I hope the whole world reads this book! Dr. Howes explores the power of a genuine apology in intimate relationships, politics, medicine and more, and she provides an elegant road-map for negotiating this tricky terrain. The ability to apologize is an often overlooked, but centrally important, aspect of happy relationships. Seamlessly written and saturated with wisdom, this book shows what it takes to free the heart - ours and others."
—Christopher Germer, PhD, author of TheMindful Path to Self-Compassion

"In A Good Apology, Dr. Molly Howes expertly delves into a difficult topic that helps us all become more loving and connected. In today's hectic world, nurturing our relationships is paramount. Through stories of people struggling and other useful tips and tools, Dr. Howes creates a road map we can all use to thrive."—Dr.Zelana Montminy, behavioral scientist & author of 21 Days toResilience

"Healthy relationships are essential to how we live and work together. Imagine the benefit to business, families, governments, health care, faith communities, education, and our quality of life if human beings could learn to make a good apology. In this earnest and inviting book, Dr. Howes connects social science, popular events and her considerable clinical expertise to create an accessible formula for the repair of broken relationships. In our divided age, this should be required reading."—NicholasCovino, PsyD, President of William James College

"'A Good Apology' is a brilliant, beautifully written, impeccably researched book that should be read by anyone involved in conflict management, organizational consulting, coaching, or psychotherapy. Actually, I can think of no one who would not benefit - both personally and professionally - from this book's clear, analytical, and heartfelt exploration of the four essential steps in a successful apology. Molly Howes has given us a life-changing gift with her sage advice and evocative stories of hurt, apology, and reconciliation."—p.p1 {margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: center; font: 11.0px 'Times New Roman'}span.s1 {font-kerning: none}David A. Hoffman, Esq., Mediator, Arbitrator, Collaborative Lawyer

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