Splinters, Leslie Jamison
Splinters, Leslie Jamison
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Splinters
Another Kind of Love Story

Bestseller

Author: Leslie Jamison

Narrator: Leslie Jamison

Unabridged: 8 hr 32 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/20/2024


Synopsis

From the New York Times bestselling author of The Recovering and The Empathy Exams comes the riveting story of rebuilding a life after the end of a marriage—an exploration of motherhood, art, and new love.
 
Leslie Jamison has become one of our most beloved contemporary voices, a scribe of the real, the true, the complex. She has been compared to Joan Didion and Susan Sontag, acclaimed for her powerful thinking, deep feeling, and electric prose. But while Jamison has never shied away from challenging material—scouring her own psyche and digging into our most unanswerable questions across four books—Splinters enters a new realm.
 
In her first memoir, Jamison turns her unrivaled powers of perception on some of the most intimate relationships of her life: her consuming love for her young daughter, a ruptured marriage once swollen with hope, and the shaping legacy of her own parents’ complicated bond. In examining what it means for a woman to be many things at once—a mother, an artist, a teacher, a lover—Jamison places the magical and the mundane side by side in surprising ways: pumping breastmilk in a shared university office, driving the open highway in the throes of new love, growing a tender second skin of consciousness as she watches her daughter come alive to the world. The result is a work of nonfiction like no other, an almost impossibly deep reckoning with the muchness of life and art, and a book that grieves the departure of one love even as it celebrates the arrival of another.
 
How do we move forward into joy when we are haunted by loss? How do we claim hope alongside the harm we’ve caused? A memoir for which the very term tour de force seems to have been coined, Splinters plumbs these and other pressing questions with writing that is revelatory to the last page. Jamison has delivered a book with the linguistic daring and emotional acuity that made The Empathy Exams and The Recovering instant classics, even as she reaches new depths of understanding, piercing the reader to the core. A master of nonfiction, she evinces once again her ability to “stitch together the intellectual and the emotional with the finesse of a crackerjack surgeon” (NPR).

Reviews

Goodreads review by Roxane on February 18, 2024

Jamison writes beautifully and brings a depth of wisdom to her prose I really admire. As a memoir of motherhood and divorce there is a lot going on here. Very introspective. The parts about always trying to make yourself into what romantic interests want you to be is relatable. The overall pace and......more

Goodreads review by Shawna on January 14, 2024

This book reads like the sometimes amusing, often exhausting stories from your super toxic best friend who has no boundaries or self esteem. Some of it is interesting but most of it is riddled in red flags. Daughter obsession. Anxious avoidant attachment with men. Usually you want to leave a book fe......more

Goodreads review by Jessica on March 03, 2024

Jamison is very good at writing sentences and evoking feelings. But as a complete work there is not a lot else here. I got divorced when my youngest was about the same age as Jamison's daughter and it sent me through my own journey of dating and self-discovery so I should have been a prime reader for......more

Goodreads review by Thomas on April 30, 2024

I liked this one way more than I thought I would. It’s my favorite Leslie Jamison work since I read The Empathy Exams in 2014 way back in my undergrad years. The Recovering felt to me too much like a dissertation clumsily turned into a book, and Make It Scream, Make It Burn just seemed all over the......more

Goodreads review by Carol Dawn on February 27, 2024

258 pages of whining! Yes divorce is tough and sad and lonely. This is the story of a supposedly smart privileged woman making bad choices for herself and her child. She has a streak of martyrdom in her and wants pity and applause for doing things the hard way. She was absolutely right to leave the......more


Quotes

“Leslie Jamison’s blazing memoir kept me riveted for the single day it took to guzzle it down. This wry, hilarious, and utterly unputdownable book is a gift that feels like an immediate hit and a forever classic.”—Mary Karr, New York Times bestselling author of Lit and The Liar’s Club

Splinters is as sharp and piercing as its title—a brilliant reckoning with what it means to make art, a self, a family, a life. If I were offered one guide as a writer, as a mother, as a teacher, as a human being constantly reinventing herself out of necessity, I’d want that guide to be Leslie Jamison. This memoir is a masterclass.”
 —Maggie Smith, New York Times bestselling author of You Could Make This Place Beautiful

“In Splinters, Jamison offers a riveting portrait of rupture that is at once a page-turner about divorce, a romance about parenthood, a mystery of self after splintering, and a promise that however many times we break or are broken, art and love will never fail to mend us.”
 —Melissa Febos, author of the National Book Critics Circle Award winner and national bestseller Girlhood

“Leslie Jamison’s memoir, Splinters, is a stairway behind the eyes of a woman in the midst of transformation, written so brilliantly, and with such a skilled hand, that readers are likely to find themselves peacefully lost even in its darker moments. These pages are so magnetizing that I wanted to race along, but forced myself to slow down enough to savor the language. No one should be this good at writing. This gorgeous book will blow you away.”—Ashley C. Ford, New York Times bestselling author of Somebody’s Daughter

Splinters is a stunning portrait of the intricate tapestry of human emotions. On every page, in exquisite prose, Jamison unearths moments of luminosity and grace amid pain. Giving language to fundamental experiences of love, grief, and parenthood all too often skirted past, this book is essential reading for anyone who cares about the power of language to help us find solace and recompense.” 
 —Meghan O’Rourke, New York Times bestselling author of The Invisible Kingdom

“An astounding achievement. This is a memoir of emotional depth that reminds us that love, in its fullness, is as much a construction of jagged and flinty edges as an ideal of cloudless skies. In Splinters, Leslie Jamison is unstinting in her assessment of marriage gained and lost, of motherhood held close, and of loving oneself in the process, all conveyed with her unsparing and attentive eye.”—Esmé Weijun Wang, New York Times bestselling author of The Collected Schizophrenias

“I didn’t realize I needed someone to write this book. As it turns out, I needed Leslie Jamison to write this book. It moved me so much and hooked me so quickly. I absolutely consumed it, this book about hunger and aftermath, about pleasure and beauty and silencing and speaking up, and that new language you get to invent and learn at the same time with your child. Splinters is enormously satisfying—full of passages, images, and ideas that are, quite simply, some of my favorite things I’ve ever read.”—Mary-Louise Parker, New York Times bestselling author of Dear Mr. You, and Emmy, Golden Globe, and Tony Award winner

“Christ Almighty this book is good. It’s a masterpiece. No one else I’ve read has captured motherhood—the painful overabundance of it, the extreme delight, the cascading fears—the way Leslie Jamison does in Splinters. No one else I’ve read has evoked so powerfully what it feels like to be pulled by too many competing tethers until you’re half a mother, half a writer, barely a wife, hardly a real person. The electric truth at the heart of this book is that, in this shattering and reassembling, you’re reorganized into a new kind of person, one attuned to abundance, open to chaos and surprise, gratified by the tiny pleasures of being alive. In Splinters, Jamison offers us an emotionally rich odyssey on the terrors and triumph of becoming whole.”—Heather Havrilesky, author of Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage and the “Ask Polly” advice column

"Jamison’s genius—a word I use without hyperbole—is her capaciousness, how she gives us the blushing baby and the shitty diapers, the sweeping romances and their residue. We see Jamison half-whirling like Rumi in the throes of ecstatic love for a new daughter, knowing her ecstasy is real because she renders it wholly, alongside the pulverizing lonelinesses of loving deeply. Splinters is a praise song for what remains unannihilated, what has been salvaged from a time—a world—of annihilation. I find in Jamison’s work what I’ve sought my entire life: a rigorous and attentive steward for whom dailiness deepens, instead of diminishes, awe.”—Kaveh Akbar, author of Calling a Wolf a Wolf

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