The Elissas, Samantha Leach
The Elissas, Samantha Leach
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The Elissas
Three Girls, One Fate, and the Deadly Secrets of Suburbia

Author: Samantha Leach

Narrator: Jesse Vilinsky, Samantha Leach

Unabridged: 7 hr 2 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Legacy Lit

Published: 06/06/2023


Synopsis

Three suburban girls meet at a boarding school for troubled teens.
Eight years later, they were dead.

Bustle editor Samantha Leach and her childhood best friend, Elissa, met as infants in the suburbs of Providence, Rhode Island, where they attended nursery, elementary school, and temple together. As seventh graders, they would steal drinks from bar mitzvahs and have boys over in Samantha’s basement—innocent, early acts of rebellion. But after one of their shared acts, Samantha was given a disciplinary warning by their private school while Elissa was dismissed altogether, and later sent away. Samantha did not know then, but Elissa had just become one of the fifty-thousand-plus kids per year who enter the Troubled Teen Industry: a network of unregulated programs meant to reform wealthy, wayward youth. 
 
Less than a year after graduation from Ponca Pines Academy, Elissa died at eighteen years old. In Samantha’s grief, she fixated on Elissa’s last years at the therapeutic boarding school, eager to understand why their paths diverged. As she spoke to mutual friends and scoured social media pages, Samantha learned of Alyssa and Alissa, Elissa’s closest friends at the school who shared both her name and penchant for partying, where drugs and alcohol became their norm. The matching Save Our Souls tattoo all three girls also had further fueled Samantha’s fixation, as she watched their lives play out online. Four years after Elissa’s death, Alyssa died, then Alissa at twenty-six. 
 
In The Elissas, Samantha endeavors to understand why they ultimately met a shared, tragic fate that she was spared, in turn, offering a chilling account of the secret lives of young suburban women.

Reviews

Goodreads review by casey on June 10, 2023

this was a super fast read and well written but i'll be honest the longer i think about the concept of this book the more bizarre it feels especially considering the lack of depth you really get on any of the topics it felt like it was going to tackle. Since none of the girls spoken about in this ar......more

Goodreads review by Nia on June 10, 2023

"While being a rebellious teenage girl is an inherently romantic experience—one that's fetishized by the stories I grew up on ... the romance doesn't last very long." That quote from this memoir sums up what I feel about the book. The author in some ways perpetuated that cycle of fetishization with t......more

Goodreads review by Julia on July 07, 2023

i was trying to write a scathing review but the goodreads app crashed so here’s what i remember: i don’t like that this book attempts to draw a straight line between the troubled teen industry and the deaths of 3 girls, 2 of whom the author never met and only knew from stalking on facebook. it doesn......more

Goodreads review by Casey Bee on June 15, 2023

Samantha and Elissa were best friends since diapers. Growing up in the wealthy suburbs of Rhode Island, they wanted for nothing. With wealthy parents and access to a fancy life, the girls fell into rebellious socialite behavior. With stars like party girls Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie, whose drun......more

Goodreads review by Shana on June 20, 2023

Perhaps what makes it so compelling and readable is inextricably tied to what makes it problematic. The cons: Major issues include the author’s use of inherently judgmental terms (“drugging,” “addict,” “junkie”; if she was modeling her language after the words used by the Elissas when they were aliv......more


Quotes

“[Leach] develops sensitive portraits of each girl and suggests how social pressures, combined with health and environmental factors, conspired to damage the minds and then destroy the bodies of three vulnerable young women. A poignant and heartfelt mix of sociology and memoir.” —Kirkus

“…a searing exposé.”—Publisher’s Weekly (Starred Review)

“In The Elissas, Samantha Leach writes with great compassion about the pressures on girls to live up to today’s punishing beauty standards. With insight and precision, Leach exposes the ways in which the so-called Troubled Teen Industry preys upon girls’ vulnerability and capitalizes on their parents’ naivete—and bank accounts. The Elissas is both a deeply personal story of loss and an indictment of the societal forces that contributed to robbing a young woman of those closest to her. Leach’s investigation into how the Elissas perished adds much to our understanding of how dangerous misogyny can be to the health and well-being of girls and young women.”—Nancy Jo Sales, New York Times bestselling author of American Girls and Nothing Personal

“Rebellious and real, troubled yet hopeful, The Elissas presents an abiding portrait of friendship forged in the coercive clutches of upper and middle class America. From the basements of suburban homes to the innermost workings of the Troubled Teen industry, Samantha Leach holds a magnifying glass to adolescent girlhood and the capitalist forces that equate youth with desirability, beauty with success, safety with secrecy.”—Allie Rowbottom, author of Aesthetica and Jell-O Girls

“A decade after losing her best friend, Samantha Leach is haunted by her loss. Why was she spared the fate that befell Elissa? In incisive, fearless prose Leach investigates the realities of the Troubled Teen Industry and reevaluates her own role in the chaos and rebellion of adolescence. There are hard truths about girlhood, friendship, and boundaries in The Elissas, each of them heart-rending and ultimately, inspiring.”—Stephanie Danler, New York Times bestselling author of Sweetbitter and Stray

“Samantha Leach's The Elissas is a compelling fusion of memoir, reportage and cultural analysis that serves as both a damning indictment of the exploitative troubled teen industry and a compassionate look at the young people who have fallen prey to it.”—Sam Lansky, author of The Gilded Razor