Hope for Cynics, Jamil Zaki
Hope for Cynics, Jamil Zaki
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Hope for Cynics
The Surprising Science of Human Goodness

Author: Jamil Zaki

Narrator: Jamil Zaki

Unabridged: 7 hr 53 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 09/03/2024

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

Cynicism is making us sick; Stanford Psychologist Dr. Jamil Zaki has the cure—a “ray of light for dark days” (Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author). For thousands of years, people have argued about whether humanity is selfish or generous, cruel or kind. But recently, our answers have changed.  In 1972, half of Americans agreed that most people can be trusted; by 2018, only a third did. Different generations, genders, religions, and political parties can’t seem to agree on anything, except that they all think human virtue is evaporating. 
 
Cynicism is a perfectly understandable response to a world full of injustice and inequality. But in many cases, it is misplaced.  Dozens of studies find that people fail to realize how kind, generous, and open-minded others really are.  Cynical thinking worsens social problems, because our beliefs don’t just interpret the world—they change it. When we expect the worst in people, we often bring it out of them.  Cynicism is a disease, with a history, symptoms—and a cure. Through science and storytelling, Jamil Zaki imparts the secret for beating back cynicism: hopeful skepticism. This approach doesn’t mean putting our faith in every politician or influencer. It means thinking critically about people and our problems, while simultaneously acknowledging and encouraging our strengths. Far from being naïve, hopeful skepticism is a more precise way of understanding others, and paying closer attention re-balances how you think about human nature.  As more of us do this, we can take steps towards building the world we truly want. 

Reviews

Goodreads review by Chris on September 09, 2024

This is easily one of my favorite books of the year, and I can’t recommend it enough. I’m a major cynic, and I went into this book with insane amounts of skepticism. I was thinking, “Alright. Here comes a guy completely disconnected from the real struggles of everyday people who is about to tell rea......more

Goodreads review by Jillian on November 23, 2024

This book advocates for a stance of “hopeful skepticism,” a sort of optimism without naïveté. And while I can get on board with that outlook, I had difficulty getting into this book. It felt a bit disjointed and I felt like the interesting psychological facts were buried under anecdotes that I wasn’......more

Goodreads review by Darth on October 06, 2024

Any book that completely upsets my worldview has GOTTA get 5 stars.......more

Goodreads review by Claudia on November 10, 2024

It was more than a little ironic that I finished this book only 5 days after the election. It took me over a month to read it, not because it was poorly written- it is VERY well written - but because I was in absolute stasis the month prior to the election and trying hard to self distract from it by......more

Goodreads review by Emmy Lou on December 19, 2024

This book was written in a way that really grabs the attention of cynics like me. It made me calm down and think about stuff I already knew but almost willfully ignored. Humanity is not as bad as it seems. Bad things do happen, but negatively framed media makes it seem so much worse. This is purpose......more


Quotes

“I can’t imagine a more timely topic. Hope is a skill, and one of my favorite psychologists has written its playbook. Hope for Cynics is grounded in fascinating research yet deeply personal, with an outstanding practical appendix of ‘try this’ tips for escaping the snare of cynicism.”
 —Angela Duckworth, author of the New York Times bestseller Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance

“If you think hope is naïve and cynicism is wise, get ready to think again. Jamil Zaki is at the forefront of the science of beliefs, and he shows that refusing to see possibility makes it impossible to solve problems. This book is a ray of light for dark days.” —Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Hidden Potential and Think Again, and host of the podcast Re:Thinking

“There has always been an emotional case for hope, but now there is a rational one. Jamil Zaki’s new book is beautiful, wise, and important—a sensible, scientific, and much-needed tonic for what ails us.”
 —Daniel Gilbert, author of the New York Times best-seller Stumbling on Happiness

"Magnificently written and powerfully moving, Hope for Cynics is *the* societal medicine we all need right now. Filled with the latest science, practical tips, and moving stories, Zaki provides an inspiring example of how each and every one of us can turn towards more optimism, connection, and joy."—Laurie Santos, Chandrika and Ranjan Tandon Professor of Psychology and host of The Happiness Lab podcast

"In these troubled times, we hope against hope for reasons to be hopeful.  And along comes Hope for Cynics, with good news not just about the future, but the present as well. Data, when viewed critically, show that we are less polarized, unempathic, and angry than we’re led to believe. There’s little to fear except snarky cynicism itself, and Zaki provides needed antidotes to it. Written with a wise personal voice, this is a vital book for all of us."—Robert Sapolsky, New York Times bestselling author of Determined and Behave

“In this transformative book, Jamil Zaki presents an antidote to the cynicism corroding our social health. With rigorous scientific research and fascinating narratives, Zaki challenges the belief that humanity is inherent selfish, and advocates, instead, for a 'hopeful skepticism’ that creates a better world. This is a practical guide to nurturing a more trusting and cooperative society—and, ultimately, a more optimistic future.” 
 —Charles Duhigg, author of bestsellers Supercommunicators and The Power of Habit

“Zaki paints an optimistic yet realistic view of where things stand without papering over the obstacles to building trust in increasingly divided societies. This will convince readers they don’t need to bury their heads in the sand to envision a more hopeful future.”—Publishers Weekly