Big Dating Energy, Jeff Guenther
Big Dating Energy, Jeff Guenther
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Big Dating Energy
How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self

Author: Jeff Guenther, Kate Happ

Narrator: Jeff Guenther

Unabridged: 7 hr 20 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Voracious

Published: 07/09/2024


Synopsis

Eight Rules of Love by Jay Shetty meets Tinx's The Shift for making modern relationships work for you, from a licensed professional therapist with two decades of experience and nearly 4 million followers on social media as @therapyjeff 

Dating these days is hard, and no one understands that more than licensed therapist Jeff Guenther. Whether you’re looking for marriage or just a fling, exploring your sexuality or discovering your attachment style, or just trying to figure out which app is most worth your time, Jeff meets you exactly where you are; it’s no surprise that millions of viewers have found comfort in his posts. With humor, empathy, and an acknowledgment of the obstacles to finding healthy relationships, he has become the dating whisperer for the social media age.
 
Dating in the super-online, post-covid world is not for the weak, and people are confused and looking for guidance. In the vein of Unf*ck Yourself, The Love Prescription and How to Not Die Alone, Big Dating Energy is a funny, modern self-help title that tackles the opaque world of dating, empowering the reader with straight talk and an emphasis on authenticity.

Covering everything from first dates to red flags, ideal partner checklists to knowing when and how to end things, and even an exploration of the people and things you can blame for why your dating life hasn’t worked out so far, Big Dating Energy harnesses the charm and easy-to-use advice that nearly 4 million followers come to the @therapyjeff platform for daily. It will set you up to not only succeed at dating, but maybe even enjoy it along the way.

Reviews

Enjoyed the voice and exercises. Worth a read whether you’re dating/in a relationship or not, but it's not groundbreaking information. Overall I'd recommend this if you follow the author's work on social media.......more

Goodreads review by Katie on July 10, 2024

I was so excited for this one and it did not disappoint! From the moment I delved into the pages of this book, I was captivated by Jeff’s charm and wit. While it may be true that some of the concepts were not entirely foreign to me, the gentle reminders scattered throughout were really nice. What tr......more

Goodreads review by Maria on July 17, 2024

It couldn’t be more obvious this book was written in the age of TikTok. If you’ve seen any of Therapy Jeff’s videos, this book maintains that same voice throughout. You might enjoy this if: you want homework as you are reading and active steps you might take; you want a friendly voice to give you adv......more

Goodreads review by Tinatswe on September 18, 2024

My fave tik tok therapist dropped a book so ofc I had to read it. It’s about love and relationships and how we navigate various stages of relationships with other and with ourselves as well. It was quirky and straight to the point and super useful tips I think for people who are looking to get into......more

Goodreads review by Kass on January 15, 2025

This was good don’t get me wrong: and I absolutely adore TherapyJeff. I’ve followed him for a while online. I just wanted this book to be grittier and a little more context specific. It had some great insight (I’m an anxious avoidant girly trying to undo some of my patterns) but I thought it was gun......more


Quotes

"Raw, empowering, and refreshingly honest, Big Dating Energy will teach you to embrace you full self and date with confidence. With his signature no-nonsense, deeply compassionate style, Jeff offers practical tips and unwavering support to help you navigate the dating scene - and have fun while doing it."—Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone