How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo
How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo
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How to Love Better
The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion

Author: Yung Pueblo

Narrator: Yung Pueblo

Unabridged: 7 hr 33 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 03/11/2025


Synopsis

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The beloved author of Lighter offers a blueprint for deepening your compassion, kindness, and gratitude so you can truly grow in harmony with another person and build stronger connections in all your relationships.

“A beautiful offering from the heart, to the heart.”—Elizabeth Gilbert

“Yung Pueblo holds a mirror to the relationships we have and offers clear directions to the relationships we desire.”—Simon Sinek

“How to Love Better is destined to change your life.”—Lena Waithe

“Everyone enters relationships with imperfections and negative patterns that block the flow of love, but when you embrace growth, the new harmony within you will flow into your relationship.”

Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.

In How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo examines all aspects of relationships, from the rose-colored early days when you may be hesitant to show your full self, to the challenges that can arise without clear communication, to dealing with heartbreak and healing as you close a chapter of your life. The power of looking inward remains at the core of Yung Pueblo’s teachings. Ego and attachment can become barriers in a relationship, so the more self-aware you become, the more you can support both your partner and yourself.

How to Love Better includes:
• How to build harmony in a relationship
• How to see each other’s perspective
• How to find the right partner
• How to heal from heartbreak
• How to overcome attachment
• How to form commitments
• How to argue

Yung Pueblo’s insights on embracing change, building a foundation of honesty, and learning to listen selflessly will resonate regardless of where you are in your healing journey. And his unique combination of poetry, personal experience, and thoughtful advice will help you grow and strengthen all of your relationships.

About yung pueblo

Diego Perez was born in Ecuador and immigrated to the United States as a child. He grew up in Boston and attended Wesleyan University. During a silent Vipassana meditation course in 2012, he saw that real healing and liberation were possible. He became more committed to his meditation practice while living in New York City. The results he witnessed firsthand moved him to describe his experiences in writing.   The penname yung pueblo means “young people” and is meant to convey that humanity is entering an era of remarkable growth and healing, when many will expand their self-awareness and release old burdens.   Diego’s online presence as yung pueblo, as well as his books, are meant to serve those undertaking their own journey of personal transformation.  Today, Diego resides in Western Massachusetts with his wife, where they live quietly and meditate daily. 


Reviews

Goodreads review by Angela on April 10, 2025

Ok so there are tons of “shoulds” here. But it’s just a long list of what we should be which is kinder and I get that but no practical tips on HOW to accomplish this. Other than take multiple ten day meditation retreats but who can actually do that?!?! I have it 2 stars because it helped me fall asl......more

Goodreads review by Nat :) on March 22, 2025

Yung Pueblo never misses with his words, but How to Love Better hit especially deep. This book felt like a quiet mirror reminding me of the work, the growth, the unlearning, and the self-compassion that true love requires. Every page made me pause and reflect. Every insight felt like it was written d......more

Goodreads review by Blade on April 23, 2025

I wasn’t sure what this book was going to contain but it was a great read and another way to look into things we all know but have questions about. Reading certain topics brought a unique way to look at what “love” can be in regard to self-love, friendships and partnerships.......more

Goodreads review by Sarah on March 28, 2025

Emotional intelligence should be taught in school......more

Goodreads review by sara on March 26, 2025

Maybe this book would’ve benefitted me in the past, but this book very much so reflects on the usual stuff everyone knows. Basically- love yourself to love better is a huge message everyone always says. Go to therapy. Move your body. Meditate. This is good advice. All of this is not wrong at all. Th......more


Quotes

“This book is a beautiful offering from the heart, to the heart. I read through it in one quiet sitting, feeling its wisdom fill my spirit with hope that—after all the difficulties that relationships can bring—love (when blended with grace) can and will prevail.”—Elizabeth Gilbert, New York Times bestselling author of Eat, Pray, Love

“I am a huge fan of Yung Pueblo. He has a unique ability to offer the perfect words to capture the feelings, insights, and lessons we need to feel, see, and hear. How to Love Better is no exception. In it, Yung Pueblo holds a mirror to the relationships we have and offers clear directions to the relationships we desire. I’m so glad this book exists!”—Simon Sinek, New York Times bestselling author of The Infinite Game and host of the podcast A Bit of Optimism

“Get ready to underline and highlight so many pages of this beautiful book. In the time we are living in today, we are all on a growth journey. I always say the hardest part is showing up. Yung Pueblo serves as an unpretentious and pertinent guide for how to participate compassionately in your own growth, lean into your healing era, and set yourself up to be of service to others.”—Adriene Mishler, creator of Yoga with Adriene, artist, and actor

How to Love Better is destined to change your life. Yung Pueblo is determined to help us understand that true love starts within. A lot of us are looking outside of ourselves for our happily ever after. But this book reminds us that happiness is not the goal; peace is.”—Lena Waithe, Emmy Award–winning writer, producer, and actor

“Each of us must understand our own needs and our wants to build a healthy, loving relationship. Yung Pueblo challenges us to grow separately and alongside our partners. How to Love Better, with its focus on our individual healing and shared contributions in relationships, along with Yung Pueblo’s vulnerability in sharing his own story, is the guide we need as we navigate life and love.”—Jillian Turecki, author of It Begins with You and host of the podcast Jillian on Love

“In a world that often pulls us outward, How to Love Better reminds us to journey within. I used to see solitude as isolating, but now I understand it as a powerful form of self-discovery. In this transformative book, Yung Pueblo guides readers to understand that deep, authentic connections start from cultivating a loving relationship with oneself. This book speaks to the courage of self-love as the foundation of all relationships.”—Tia Mowry, actor and author of the Whole New You