Loving What Is, Byron Katie
Loving What Is, Byron Katie
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Loving What Is
Four Questions That Can Change Your Life

Author: Byron Katie, Stephen Mitchell

Narrator: Byron Katie, Stephen Mitchell, MacLeod Andrews, Rebecca Lowman

Unabridged: 9 hr 7 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 01/05/2016


Synopsis

Out of nowhere, like a cool breeze in a marketplace crowded with advice, comes Byron Katie and “The Work.”

In the midst of a normal life, Katie became increasingly depressed, and over a ten-year period sank further into rage, despair, and thoughts of suicide. Then one morning, she woke up in a state of absolute joy, filled with the realization of how her own suffering had ended. The freedom of that realization has never left her, and now in Loving What Is you can discover the same freedom through The Work.

The Work is simply four questions that, when applied to a specific problem, enable you to see what is troubling you in an entirely different light. As Katie says, “It’s not the problem that causes our suffering; it’s our thinking about the problem.” Contrary to popular belief, trying to let go of a painful thought never works; instead, once we have done The Work, the thought lets go of us. At that point, we can truly love what is, just as it is.

Loving What Is will show you step-by-step, through clear and vivid examples, exactly how to use this revolutionary process for yourself. You’ll see people do The Work with Katie on a broad range of human problems, from a wife ready to leave her husband because he wants more sex, to a Manhattan worker paralyzed by fear of terrorism, to a woman suffering over a death in her family. Many people have discovered The Work’s power to solve problems; in addition, they say that through The Work they experience a sense of lasting peace and find the clarity and energy to act, even in situations that had previously seemed impossible.

If you continue to do The Work, you may discover, as many people have, that the questioning flows into every aspect of your life, effortlessly undoing the stressful thoughts that keep you from experiencing peace. Loving What Is offers everything you need to learn and live this remarkable process, and to find happiness as what Katie calls “a lover of reality.”

About The Author

Byron Katie experienced what she calls “waking up to reality” in 1986, and since then she has introduced The Work to hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world. In addition to her public events, she has introduced The Work into business settings, universities, schools, churches, prisons, and hospitals. Stephen Mitchell’s many books include the best-selling Tao Te Ching, Bhagavad Gita, The Gospel According to Jesus, Meetings with the Archangel, and The Frog Prince.


Reviews

AudiobooksNow review by Karen on 2016-05-04 12:48:55

I have the original audio book on cassette tape and wanted it in an mp3 format. The original includes actual live recordings of her doing the work with people. It's very powerful because you can actually hear the moment when the individual "gets it". This audio book doesn't include that. It's a voice actor reading the text of the person she's working with and lacks the punch of the live version. I should have known better when the price was $10- significantly less than the original. The message is still good but not what I wanted.

AudiobooksNow review by Kay Packard on 2020-10-13 09:21:55

I used to own this book in paper back. I wanted to get the audio version but I won't because it's read by others besides Byron Katie. Her work is getting diluted by Steven, her husband.

Goodreads review by Carolyn on January 25, 2011

If you want a life-changing book, then you need to read this one today. It is so powerful. Years ago, after months of dealing with post-partum depression after giving birth to my first child, my GP suggested I talk to a therapist to help me through the depression. I ended up seeing a cognitive thera......more

Goodreads review by Virginia on July 13, 2008

This book about blew the top of my head off. Numerous times I had to sit back and contemplate the book for a long long time before I felt prepared to continue. I recommend this to EVERYBODY. It's another one of those books that would improve the world by major leaps and bounds if everybody read it.......more

Goodreads review by Maria on August 02, 2019

Excelente! En este libro Katie nos enseña a deshacernos de los pensamientos obsesivos que no nos llevan a ningún lado.......more

Goodreads review by Bob on February 25, 2009

This is a hard review. Her book (and her questions, but mostly her interviews-as-examples) have the potential to help a lot of people deal with interpersonal issues (that she boils down to inner-personal). The problem I have is the potentially dangerous way that she applies a universal logic to deal......more

Goodreads review by Steffan on August 15, 2016

As I made my way through it, I kept having this unsettling feeling - esp. as I read the dialogues in it. Eventually I figured out what was confusing and challenging about it. I deeply resonate with a lot of her core principles and premises (as they are ones I've come to on my own), yet I have some v......more


Quotes

“Good Lord! Where did Byron Katie come from? She’s the real McCoy. Her Work is amazingly effective—a simple, straightforward antidote to the suffering we unnecessarily create for ourselves. She asks us to believe nothing, but provides a surprisingly effective and simple way to cut through the tangle of delusions we wrap ourselves in. Just reading the exchanges in Loving What Is, I can admit things I didn’t want to admit and stop torturing myself in ways I didn’t realize I was doing.”
-- David Chadwick, author of Crooked Cucumber: The Life and Zen Teaching of Shunryu Suzuki

“Suppose you could find a simple way to embrace your life with joy, stop arguing with reality, and achieve serenity in the midst of chaos? That is what Loving What Is offers. It is no less than a revolutionary way to live your life. The question is: are we brave enough to accept it?”
-- Erica Jong, author of Fear of Flying

“Byron Katie’s Work is a great blessing for our planet. The root cause of suffering is identification with our thoughts, the ‘stories’ that are continuously running through our minds. Byron Katie’s Work acts like a razor-sharp sword that cuts through that illusion and enables you to know for yourself the timeless essence of your being. Joy, peace, and love emanate from it as your natural state. In Loving What Is, you have the key. Now use it.”
-- Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now

Loving What Is is filled with the essence of wisdom. Katie’s Work is a wonderful, transformative practice for anyone interested in spiritual growth.”
-- Lama Surya Das, author of Awakening the Buddha Within