Youre Not Listening, Kate Murphy
Youre Not Listening, Kate Murphy
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You're Not Listening
What You're Missing and Why It Matters

Author: Kate Murphy

Narrator: Kate Murphy

Unabridged: 6 hr 31 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 01/07/2020


Synopsis

"Narrating her own work, Murphy is certainly worthy of the listener's attention. She offers a sincere, passionate voice that is capable of delivering some hard truths about the current state of things while also showing the way toward a truly connected society." — AudioFile Magazine

**This program is read by the author**

When was the last time you listened to someone, or someone really listened to you?

At work, we’re taught to lead the conversation.
On social media, we shape our personal narratives.
At parties, we talk over one another. So do our politicians.
We’re not listening.
And no one is listening to us.

Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect, it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. And it’s making us lonelier, more isolated, and less tolerant than ever before. A listener by trade, New York Times contributor Kate Murphy wanted to know how we got here.

In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive, Murphy explains why we’re not listening, what it’s doing to us, and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology, neuroscience, and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent, focus group moderator, bartender, radio producer, and top furniture salesman). Equal parts cultural observation, scientific exploration, and rousing call to action that's full of practical advice, You're Not Listening is to listening what Susan Cain's Quiet was to introversion. It’s time to stop talking and start listening.

"An essential book for our times." - Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

About Kate Murphy

Kate Murphy is a Houston, Texas–based journalist who has written for The New York Times, The Economist, Agence France-Presse, and Texas Monthly.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Paige on January 15, 2020

How do feel when you leave a conversation feeling like the person really absorbed what you shared with them? How do you feel when you leave a conversation feeling like the person wasn’t paying attention or didn’t care what you were saying to them? This is one of the most impactful books I have read......more

Goodreads review by Debra on December 25, 2019

This is an easily readable, enjoyable and thought-provoking book. I know some may look at the name and think "What? A book about listening or not listening. How can that be interesting?" Well, it is. Working in a field that is all about listening, I found that this book reinforced, most of what I al......more

Goodreads review by Lindsay L on December 29, 2019

3.5 stars. Informative. Eye-opening. Thought-provoking. This was a well researched, enlightening read that made me sit and ponder many points. I love books that make me think! The author presents her research in an easy, well organized manner with chapters breaking down her theories. I liked how the......more

Goodreads review by Jon on April 08, 2024

There are so many books on communication - so one can assume that it is a very important topic for many people in all walks of life. What Kate Murphy (KM) has done is nothing less than a 'distillation' of the process: looking at how the listening portion of communication is so often overlooked as we......more

Goodreads review by Bella on July 16, 2020

2.5 stars. This sadly underwhelmed me. While Murphy’s observations about the best listeners are astute (and I’ll be making small shifts in my own life), I was frustrated that she seems to [1] dance around the complexities of listening and [2] make the blanket assumption that our ability to listen wa......more