Addicted to Drama, Dr. Scott Lyons
Addicted to Drama, Dr. Scott Lyons
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Addicted to Drama
Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others

Author: Dr. Scott Lyons

Narrator: Dr. Scott Lyons

Unabridged: 8 hr 48 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Balance

Published: 05/02/2023

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

With empathy, humor, and unique insight, a psychologist examines drama addiction and charts a path for healing in this groundbreaking book.

Do you know someone who seems to thrive on chaos, a person who manufactures crisis where there is none, makes mountains out of molehills, and whose very presence feels like an inescapable whirlwind?
You may even label them a “drama queen.” 
This person might be someone close to you. 
This person might even be you. 

In this groundbreaking book, clinical psychologist and mind-body expert Dr. Scott Lyons turns the notion of the “drama queen” on its head, showing that drama is actually an addiction and those who are suffering with it are experiencing a much deeper psychological, biological, and social pain. For a person addicted to drama, the intensity becomes their way of coping.  Their life is a constant cycle of crisis, chaos, and chronically high levels of stress. They may never be able to relax without an internal alarm going off, sending them spiraling back toward chaos. Drama is the stirring, the excitement, the exaggeration, the eruption, the unrest, and the medicine to feel alive in relation to the numbing of the internal and external world around them. For a person addicted to drama, the drama is often how they survive—or think they do.

With studies, primary research, and patient stories, Dr. Lyons deconstructs this little-understood addiction, sharing:  what drama addiction is and what it is not  how to identify patterns of drama addiction in yourself and others  the somatic effects of drama addiction, including chronic fatigue, autoimmune disease, joint and muscle pains, and other conditions  the origins of drama addiction— and how we are heading towards a global pandemic of a dependency on crisis and chaos  accessible exercises for recovery and healing 
Rather than dismiss addiction to drama as just attention-seeking, Dr. Lyons offers clear-eyed empathy, humor, and practical strategies to help us all understand and break free of the drama cycle. 

Reviews

Goodreads review by Stitching on July 04, 2023

3.5 rounded down. There are aspects of this book that I really enjoyed, mainly Lyons' empathy and his frequent reminders that people who are addicted to drama are not in fact vampires or evil even when their behavior causes pain to others or when you have to disengage from them for your own wellbein......more

Goodreads review by Jennifer on July 14, 2023

If you have been the victim of a drama addict and been an addict yourself you need to stop everything and read this immediately. I’m a survivor of vicious domestic violence at the hands of an drama addict and through healing acknowledge my addicting as well. No one - not even my trauma therapist was......more

Goodreads review by Shannon on May 15, 2023

"...only 20% of what we see and interpret in the present moment is happening in the present. The remaining 80% is filled by memories of the past and expectations of the future...we make decisions, adapt attitudes and take actions based on our subjective interpretations."......more

Goodreads review by Pooja on January 03, 2024

I thought this was actually a good book with lots of different perspectives and topics. I appreciated all the ideas on how to cope and deal with the issues described. My main concern was that I wonder if the title and some of the phrasing might turn people off from the book. I wonder if it would res......more

Goodreads review by Bobbie Boldt on October 20, 2023

This is one of those books that you read with your own lifestyle in mind. Some things apply broadly and others did not work for me. The point is to evaluate your relationships and identify what is healthy and productive and what is not. Podcast intereviews with him are worth a listen.......more


Quotes

“Dr. Scott Lyon’s new book Addicted to Drama compassionately unpacks the underlying dynamics that keep many of our relationships stuck in cycles of stress and chaos. Offering relatable examples and actionable steps, this book will help you break free of these patterns to create deeper and more authentic relationships.”—Nicole LePera, The Holistic Psychologist, New York Times bestselling author of How To Do The Work

“One of our lifetime's most significant and silent endemics stems from jumping from one crisis to another and creating chaos to run from deeper pain, depleting our vital energy, resources, and time. Dr. Scott Lyons offers a step-by-step process to solve this draining dilemma and heal the underlying pain. Read, learn, heal and find safety away from drama--in yourself and from those who are addicted to it.”—Peter A. Levine, PhD, author of Waking the Tiger, Healing Trauma, and In an Unspoken Voice

“Dr. Scott’s new book guides readers through a compassionate journey of understanding how an addiction to DRAMA is playing out in our lives and being replicated on a mass scale. Dr. Scott shows us that there is hope, with a fresh perspective on healing trauma and liberating ourselves from crisis, chaos, and the addiction, the never-ending cycle of drama. Read this book to heal yourself and make a change in the world.”—Justin Michael Williams, Grammy-nominated artist, author of Stay Woke: A Meditation Guide for the Rest of Us

“I highly recommend Addicted to Drama to anyone struggling with drama addiction or looking to improve their relationships and find greater peace and balance in their lives. Dr. Lyons' insights and guidance are invaluable and have the potential to transform the lives of readers.”—Dianne Poole Heller, PhD, author of The Power of Attachment

Addicted to Drama is an incredible resource of tools for transformation. Whether you’re looking to find more peace and intimacy in your relationships, become more resilient and thrive under stress, or break free of cycles that keep you in pain and suffering, this is the book to help set you free.”—Sheleana Aiyana, Rising Woman, author of Becoming The One

Addicted to Drama is a must read for anyone caught up in this vicious circle. As the founder and president of Cancer Schmancer Movement, identifying dis-ease in one’s life and gain the tools to distance yourself from unhealthy habits is the beginning of living your best life in optimal health. This journey we all begin at birth is a learning experience and a constant quest to become more refined, present and mindful.”—Fran Drescher, actor, health activist, and author of Cancer Schmancer

"[An] illuminating debut...underlaid with thorough psychological insight but remains eminently accessible, bolstered by relatable anecdotes and actionable advice. Readers will find this a thoughtful, practical entry."—Publishers Weekly