The Book of Boundaries
Set the Limits That Will Set You Free

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* A NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER *

One of: 
Amazon’s “Best business and leadership books of 2022”
SheDoesTheCity’s “10 Comforting Items For Your Winter Healing Cocoon”

“I always tell my therapy patients that boundaries create trust, comfort, and safety in a relationship, but many people struggle with how to effectively communicate what they need. In The Book of Boundaries, Melissa Urban helps you identify your boundary needs, offers actionable scripts on what to say, and shares proven tips based on a decade of experience helping people live more freely by holding their limits with confidence.”
—Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone

“The Book of Boundaries is funny, direct, and smart, bringing you actionable tools and science-backed strategies for setting boundaries using language that feels kind, natural, and empowering. Melissa’s straightforward scripts and practical tips makes it easy to identify your limits and communicate them with confidence, so you can start putting yourself first and create a life that feels bigger, freer, and more authentically YOU.”
—Mel Robbins, New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Second Rule

“Helpful as hell and lovingly direct, Melissa Urban is the boundaries big sister we all so desperately need. Through her insightful advice and easy-to-follow scripts, Urban teaches you how to stand up for yourself without walling yourself off from the people you love.”
—Tara Schuster, author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies

“Setting healthy boundaries is good for your relationships, your business, and your finances. The Book of Boundaries shows you how to stand up for yourself, say no, and communicate your needs in a way that leaves you feeling confident and empowered. Through her stories, personal experiences, and research, Melissa Urban gives you the tools, affirmations, and language you need to reclaim your time, energy, and health.”
—Tiffany Aliche, New York Times bestselling author of Get Good with Money

“Melissa Urban has written the playbook for creating connection, protecting our peace, and expanding our lives. At once insightful, personal, funny, and direct, The Book of Boundaries should be required reading for anyone who has relationships with other humans.”
—Ellen Vora, MD, psychiatrist and bestselling author of The Anatomy of Anxiety

“Urban’s encouraging tone and detailed ‘scripts,’ which provide examples of what one might say in common situations to establish boundaries, make for an empathetic and pragmatic outing. This helpful manual is a boon for those unsure of how to set limits.”
—Publishers Weekly

“[In The Book of Boundaries] you’ll find talking points for concerned in-laws who continually inquire about your fertility to bosses inclined to steamroll out-of-office replies. While boundaries are difficult, particularly when you’ve navigated life without establishing any at all, power comes through practice. . . . You can borrow Urban’s confidence and fierceness until you develop your own.”
—Oprah Daily

“If you have difficulty saying no, or constantly feel in a state of overwhelm, The Book of Boundaries: Set the Limits that will Set You Free is for you. Beyond being an entertaining read, Melissa Urban’s best-selling book features 130+ scripts to help you set boundaries for better mental health, increased energy, improved productivity, and more fulfilling relationships.”
—SheDoesTheCity

“The Book of Boundaries equips readers with practical tools and strategies to set and maintain boundaries that not only protect their well-being but also improve their interactions in their personal, professional and romantic relationships. . . . [U]nique, relatable and fresh. Covering areas related to self-care and creating a positive work-life balance, this guide is easy to read and put into action.”
—Success Magazine